Unlearning is the new LEARNING!
I was raised so well that I didn’t even think twice before saying “Raised like a Princess”. I am aware of the fact that I was privileged and raised well. It’s time to unlearn now.
It is time to unlearn being innocent, weak, and excessively emotional…its time to unlearn being dependent and feeling unloved. Every person has their own era, I had mine and we all will experience different eras throughout. The harsh reality of life is indeed, NOTHING STAYS FOREVER. Hence, take your time but wake up, grieve, and rest but jump back again… Be Independent and be there for yourself always because not everyone remembers their promises and not everyone will be there as and when you need them. So please rise to the occasion, defend yourself, and be your OWN BACK.
Life is constantly changing, and that’s simply the way it is. Understanding this enables us to deal with whatever comes our way. Life isn’t always easy, and relying on others most of the time may not be the best strategy. It’s not about locking others out; it’s about establishing a strong foundation inside ourselves.
Consider this: as we grow, we must be adaptive. Being self-sufficient does not imply saying no to friends or family. It entails having the kind of strength to handle being on our own when necessary. Too much dependence on what others think or say does not last long. The most dependable support we can rely on is the one we provide for ourselves.
Life is full of surprises, and when we stand on our own, we discover who we truly are. It is only when we rely on ourselves that we become the strongest version of ourselves. Remember that each of our lives is unique. Nobody else can understand what we are going through. Friendship is wonderful and so are relationships, but they cannot live our lives or confront our hardships. Having our own back helps us grow and realize that life is constantly changing. So, let us take the lead in our own dance, knowing that being self-sufficient will guide us through the ever-changing rhythm of life.
“Maybe you are alone today, maybe alone tomorrow, it will churn the hell out of you but it will also show you the reality, your reality, and life’s reality. Life slaps us in the most unpleasant ways and now the baton is with us-Win or lose”- RVA
Your words resonate deeply, reminding us all of the power of adaptability and growth. Grateful for the wisdom shared 🙏