In a world often marked by relentless competition and constant comparisons, it’s easy to find ourselves drowning in a sea of self-doubt and despair. We face days when our souls crumble, and the weight of expectations becomes too much to bear. But in these moments of darkness, we must remember one fundamental truth: humanity’s strength lies in its ability to uplift, not criticize.
Days turn into months, months to years…Oh Common, it’s been so long now… Get yourself up…YOU LOSER!!!! Yes, in this rat race if you fall back, if you are slow to possess the valuables like your peers then sooner or later you will be made to feel like a LOSER or crowned with the tag.
Life’s journey often appears like an endless race with a constantly shifting finish line. It can be quite stressful to live up to social expectations, which causes us to doubt our own values. When we are unable to keep up with the world’s constant expectations, it is simple to write ourselves off as losers. But what if we were to dare modify the story?
Let’s work to become “lifters” rather than maintaining a culture of criticism. Let’s realize that every person’s journey is distinct and that success cannot be determined just by what one accomplishes on the outside. Success also involves conquering challenges, developing personally, and discovering happiness on our own terms.
When we choose to encourage rather than criticize, we start a chain reaction of goodwill and assistance. We can have a profound impact on someone’s life by lending a helping hand, speaking kindly, or simply listening. By doing this, we aid in the shared healing of humanity as well as repairing the scars in our own souls.
Imagine a society where people truly applaud one another’s accomplishments without any bitterness or jealousy. A society where we understand that uplifting others does not lessen our own value but instead deepens the ties that unite us. Together, let’s create a better world.
So, the next time you feel like a ‘loser’ in the unforgiving race of life, pause and remember that you have the power to be a ‘lifter.’ Let’s transform the way we perceive success, embracing the beauty of our individual journeys. Let’s choose to be part of a movement that lifts each other up, creating a world where ‘loser’ is replaced with ‘lifter,’ and success is redefined as a collective journey towards a brighter future.
“Nearing 30 yet uncertain about your life? Oh dam!! You are unsure about your CAREER? OH, DEAR!!!! I hope you find the path and God bless you”- Well, why do we label everything with age? Why is there a need to achieve everything within a certain age limit? Biological clock, what is this behavior? Society, pls calm down!”
-RVA





