Hey! STOP, Please!
Listen, stop overreacting…… Listen, understand what she is expressing. Be sensitive.
Don’t be Over sensitive, please…. Listen, show some emotions towards others…
For God Sake, stop being judgemental…. But it’s okay to be judged now and then, It’s called society …
It’s not a big deal, get over it… Listen, the person is hurt, go and apologize.
Well, in fulfilling everyone’s expectations and crushing yours- life happened, or is it still happening? On a very normal, mundane day, you might suddenly realize how empty your life is or how alone you are. Since when have these emotions become so transactional? Since when did it all become about convenience and making everyone happy, just not yourself?
We are 90’s kids… Ugh!! No longer kids actually. We are a generation of givers and everyone around us is so used to it that when we STOP being a giver- We become BAD 🙂
So, are we a generation of loners? With everyone around yet ALONE? Is it a scary feeling or liberating for you?
Accepting that you are alone—and that is just fine—has great strength among the turmoil of society’s demands and ongoing giving. You can only really hear your voice when you’re alone yourself, free from the interference of other people’s demands or opinions. It is freeing to walk your own road since it gives you complete independence and control over your fate, even if it feels lonely at times. To recognize your value, you don’t need approval from other people. Accepting your alone is not a sign of weakness but rather of great strength since it allows you to see that you are sufficient and cease relying on other people to determine your pleasure.
“I am not a perfect example in this society, and that’s okay. I am learning to live alone without any expectations. There are pleasant surprises every now and then, but I no longer believe in every word blindly. Oh, soulmate—you showed me a fairytale in those few years, and now I am here, dealing with reality day by day. Well, oh soulmate, you showed me the world through your eyes, and all I can say is—I love you, Forever.”-RVA
