Listen, stop overreacting…… Listen, understand what she is expressing. Be sensitive. 

Don’t be Over sensitive, please…. Listen, show some emotions towards others…

For God Sake, stop being judgemental…. But it’s okay to be judged now and then, It’s called society …

It’s not a big deal, get over it… Listen, the person is hurt, go and apologize. 

Well, in fulfilling everyone’s expectations and crushing yours- life happened, or is it still happening? On a very normal, mundane day, you might suddenly realize how empty your life is or how alone you are. Since when have these emotions become so transactional? Since when did it all become about convenience and making everyone happy, just not yourself? 

We are 90’s kids… Ugh!! No longer kids actually. We are a generation of givers and everyone around us is so used to it that when we STOP being a giver- We become BAD

So, are we a generation of loners? With everyone around yet ALONE? Is it a scary feeling or liberating for you?

Accepting that you are alone—and that is just fine—has great strength among the turmoil of society’s demands and ongoing giving. You can only really hear your voice when you’re alone yourself, free from the interference of other people’s demands or opinions. It is freeing to walk your own road since it gives you complete independence and control over your fate, even if it feels lonely at times. To recognize your value, you don’t need approval from other people. Accepting your alone is not a sign of weakness but rather of great strength since it allows you to see that you are sufficient and cease relying on other people to determine your pleasure.

“I am not a perfect example in this society, and that’s okay. I am learning to live alone without any expectations. There are pleasant surprises every now and then, but I no longer believe in every word blindly. Oh, soulmate—you showed me a fairytale in those few years, and now I am here, dealing with reality day by day. Well, oh soulmate, you showed me the world through your eyes, and all I can say is—I love you, Forever.”-RVA

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A big personality once told this,” You come to this world, alone, you will go, alone”. I don’t know who and when this was said, but I do know that the personality faced a lot in life and learned from his/her experiences and thus quoted this famous line. 

Way back in my Era, I would dread the idea of venturing out alone. Oh god, walking down the lane alone? Eating alone? Do your stuff alone? I can never do this, it’s so depressing… Kitni stupid thi mein ( how stupid of me to think like that). Cut to the present, sitting in a corner, very well all alone, articulating my thoughts about being ALONE—a feeling which is a blessing and a bane. When you learn to stay alone and when you get too comfortable with the idea of being Alone, it scares people around you. 

Is it okay to romanticize being alone? The comfort in eating alone or just staying there. Well, no one can hurt you that way. Since when did we become a generation of loners? 

Is it always after being hurt? Emotionally and mentally tired? I chose to be alone after numerous tries to be heard. I chose to be alone after being let down by those who said,” I can’t live without you” and then disappearing.

Well, it’s not that bad after all, it’s Independence, liberating, and peaceful. 

Finding calmness in solitude is a revelation—a safe haven where one can confront their deepest thoughts without external distractions. True strength emerges during these solitary moments. Accepting isolation is not an escape from the world, but rather a brave confrontation with oneself, a voyage of self-discovery and growth. Never fear the stillness or the darkness that lurks within; instead, use the power of isolation to confront their demons, emerging stronger, wiser, and more resilient than ever. In the calm of solitude, one discovers not only peace but also the courage to face life’s obstacles head-on, coming out over their inner struggle.  

Being alone does not imply loneliness; rather, it provides an opportunity for reflection and self-renewal. It is an opportunity to grow one’s business and create self-love and acceptance. Individuals who embrace isolation learn to rely on their strength and perseverance, resulting in a renewed sense of independence and empowerment. 

So, instead of avoiding solitude, let us embrace it as a great tool for personal development and inner tranquillity. In the solitude of self-discovery, one can gather the confidence to face their anxieties, heal their wounds, and emerge as their most true and strong self.

“ Hey! It’s been long since I heard from you, so what’s happening? Well, it’s been long since I chose peace over chaos and silence over rejection. It’s been long since I learned the power of being alone as no one can hurt you that way”-RVA

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