Such innocent souls making plans for the future, saving it all up for that ONE BIG MOMENT! Are we sure about that moment? Are we sure we will live through that moment the way we have planned?

THE LAST HUG! We never know when we will hug our loved ones for the last time ever, do we? We express love differently, but the embrace of the hug remains the same. I love you, and I have missed you so much, Aah! It feels great to meet after such a long time or I will see you soon, different emotions yet one HUG emotes it all so perfectly. 

So, we don’t know when it will be our last hug with the person we love the most and have future plans with. So please please, there’s nothing wrong with planning way ahead for the future but in all the hustle and bustle let’s not forget to live today and express our love. 

It hurts when we want to be with the person and hug them tight, all we wish for then is one last time please, ONE LAST HUG, PLS?

So, let’s use the unpredictability of life as a reminder, a wake-up call, to start living in the moment and expressing love. We are all guilty of taking our loved ones for granted, assuming there will always be a tomorrow, another chance to say “I love you” and give that warm, comforting hug. But what if tomorrow never comes?

Don’t wait for a special occasion or a big event to express your feelings. Little gestures of love and kindness are what truly matter in the vast stage of life. A hug can often convey what words cannot. It speaks of tenderness, affection, and an unspoken promise to be there for one another.

Life is a delightful gift and time is limited. Begin today by making each day count. Reach out to your loved ones, express your emotions, and hug them tightly. Don’t simply think about the future; live in the present, love in the moment, and treasure every hug as if it were your last.

Because when you give that ONE LAST HUG, it’s not a goodbye; it’s a heartfelt expression of love, a memory you’ll forever treasure. So, let’s remember, in the grand comedy show called Life, let’s make love and hug the stars of our own personal show, filling each day with warmth, affection, and appreciation.

“ Even if I get a chance to hug you tightly for the zillion times, I will always ask for that ONE LAST HUG. I am here, waiting for you, with my arms open and just hoping to embrace your touch, your smile, and YOU. For you are in me now and I will wait forever until we meet again”-RVA

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The cultural drive to coach us on how to conduct our lives is relentless in a society that moves at an ever-accelerating pace. When dealing with trauma, whether it is a heartbreaking breakup, the loss of a cherished loved one, or the sting of betrayal, we are frequently encouraged, “Give yourself time, time heals everything, and you will eventually move on.” But what happens if we don’t? What if we prefer to live with our sorrow, accepting it as a part of our path rather than trying to avoid it? These considerations push us to confront society’s rigorous norms for grieving and rehabilitation.

The common refrain of “time heals everything” is a soothing balm for many, offering the promise of respite from the anguish of traumatic events. However, it is crucial to recognize that healing is not a one-size-fits-all process. Society’s expectation that we must follow a predefined timeline for grieving often overlooks the individuality of our experiences.

Trauma has profound consequences in our lives. It leaves a permanent trace, a scar on our souls, from which we may never fully recover. It’s not about drowning in sadness, but about accepting the fact that suffering changes us. It takes a piece of us with it, and the concept of “moving on” may not be for everyone. For some, healing involves accepting their trauma into their identity and taking it with them as they navigate life’s turbulent waters.

The tremendous pressure to comply with society’s timeframe for grief causes us to mistrust ourselves and hide our pain. But why should we rush our recovery? Grief isn’t a straight line; it fluctuates and flows, and there’s no right or wrong way to go through it.

What if one individual takes years to mend while another finds consolation in months? Is our strength determined by our mourning timeline? Certainly not. Each person’s path through grief is unique. It is past time for society to acknowledge this truth.

Fear of societal judgment forces us to wear masks of strength, preventing us from receiving genuine healing. Let us challenge these standards and celebrate the diversity of human experiences. There is no shame in grieving for as long as necessary; healing is not a sprint.

Hope is found in our uniqueness. Our ability to endure and heal is defined by ourselves, not by others. Some traumas never heal completely, but they transform us into resilient, sensitive, and compassionate people.

It’s not about moving on; it’s about moving forward at our own pace, with our scars as a testament to strength. Society has its standards, but we aren’t bound by them. We’re free to embrace our unique journey through grief and find true healing in our individuality.

“Nothing stays forever, be it happiness or sadness. What is permanent is how we feel. People change, personalities change but deep down we all remember and carry on with it”- RVA

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