Time to RESTART… It might be the most overwhelming change that you will experience, you might even feel not good enough and left behind… The fear, uncertainty, and self-doubt will cripple you but that is when you get to stand up, slow and steady, and RESTART.

Almost three decades old, yet I feel left behind, brutally bashed down and conquered by life and many, but I was raised by a strong woman who never gave up. Forget giving up, she didn’t even let anyone know what she was going through- all we saw was the ever-charismatic smile and elegance. Hence, RESTARTING it all from scratch with a lot of stares and judgments.

Making a fresh start isn’t easy; the dread of failure can be terrifying. Consider facing the darkest days and deciding, “I won’t give up.” It’s difficult. Doubt sneaks in, telling you to give up in the face of uncertainty.

However, true courage comes from understanding that failure is not the destination, but rather a means to learn and grow. Choosing to bounce back in the face of fear shows resilience. It sends a strong message that past falls will not define the future, and that sad times will not diminish the possibility of happier days.

Yes, people might stare, comment, or judge, but keep going. The restart is a personal journey for self-growth, a commitment to not be defined by the past.

So, as you progress, acknowledge your fear, face your uncertainty, and keep rising. Restarting isn’t a one-time event; it’s a daily decision to overcome difficulties and create a better future. Finally, the will to never give up prevails over the fear of failing, resulting in a future full of strength and perseverance.

“Taking a step back, maybe a step or a two. Judgements around, isn’t this a fallback for you? You could have done better!! SIGH!! Well, they can judge but they can never know the journey. Still, in darkness and grief, it’s a part of me now and I promise no one will know about it as the facade of a smile and daily mundane will do a good job. Well, for now, let’s RESTART!”-RVA

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Aah, I miss you….we often find ourselves sitting quietly and reliving ourselves. Those days, how we were as Individuals and together and where we are now. 

Suddenly the nights turn sleepless, tossing and turning!! Sleep where are you? The mind is constantly thinking about something or the other and sleep seems to take a back seat.

We all must have said this line someday or the other– Yaar! Kitne stupid the hum (we were foolish) lekin yaar, woh din bhi kya din the ( but then also it was our golden era)

Life moves on, everything seems the same but nothing stays the same, including us. We change sometimes due to the situations and sometimes we change without even us realising it. 

We all go through changes as time passes. Time has a way of molding us, and we frequently find ourselves looking back, missing how things used to be.

Change can be difficult. We feel like we are losing a piece of ourselves with each passing day. But, in the midst of this turmoil, something beautiful is taking place—a symbol of our own growth and perseverance. ( Looking at the brighter side)

Even though we miss the person we used to be, a faint, hopeful light remains within us. It’s a promise that new beginnings are on the way. Despite the anguish of mourning the past, we have strength. Every day is a new opportunity to define our destiny, guided by hope.

Change is an inevitable element of life. It is not the end, but rather a step along the way. So, to our former selves, whom we miss, we bid farewell with gratitude. We continue forward, knowing that the future will provide opportunities for rediscovery and ongoing transformation.

“They say I have changed and I am not like before, I don’t smile nor crack the usual jokes..Well, they are right, I am not the same and I miss the part of me that is in heaven now with my soulmate. I am happy though because my soulmate has a part of me and its till infinity.”- RVA.

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